Listening beyond hearing

 

 

 “Deaf people can do anything hearing people can, except hear!” – Dr. King Jordan

Any journey to unknown territory is scary. The excitement, anxiousness, fear, emotional upheaval and anticipation add to the drama. However once you set sail, you face the waves as they come and that is exactly what we at HearMeSpeak have done.

It has been an educative, sometimes tiring, sometimes exciting, and never-a-dull-minute kind of journey for us this past year. With wonderful and heartfelt support from parents, doctors, specialists, therapists and lovely children themselves; we have completed a year on a high.

HearMeSpeak was started as a forum to help and educate parents with hearing impaired children. The idea was to explain to them that children with hearing impairment are no different from regular children.  At the same time, the mission was to help them get access to specialists who would help them help their children overcome the disability. The goal was to separate the ‘dis’ and focus on the ‘ability’.  Together with a team of individuals who believed in the vision and shared the same set of beliefs we have come so far.

The icing on the cake for HearMeSpeak was the Audio Visual movie directed by Vernita Verma and narrated by the face of HearMeSpeak – Alpa Bhawani. The movie focussed on how parents can use every day routines to develop spoken language in their child. A big thank you and round of applause to the parents who agreed to come on camera without inhibition and share their stories with the world.

In this exhaustive but highly productive year, we have grown- not just in numbers, but also in knowledge, information and support. We started off by connecting with families of children with hearing loss. Interacting with them, helping them understand the shortcomings, explaining treatment options and therapy benefits and seeing them succeed has been gratifying. Watching hearing impaired children communicate effortlessly and normally gives us a sense of satisfaction and euphoria.

Over the past year we have connected families with professionals (both within the country and those based overseas) from this field, through our face book page. Using technology to our advantage, we have conducted online sessions through blab podcast with these professionals and empowered families. We have discussed at length on various topics including, working upon higher language goals by cert. AVT, cochlear implant and what happens after switch on, guidance from audiologist and much more. In addition, we have released blog posts on special occasions like mother’s day, father’s day, Diwali and Christmas.

What makes the journey interesting is that all the activities we have initiated and carried through have been done with unconditional love and with a will to educate our society, all free of cost. We haven’t charged any of the families involved a single fee and have given our services wholeheartedly.

As a result, our good work and good will has spread not only in India but many parts of the world too. As we celebrate our first anniversary, we are reminded that we have much more work to do and many more people to connect with.  Because like Dr Jordan mentioned, “Deaf people can do anything,” and that’s precisely what we aim to be able to do – ANYTHING!

A special mention and heartfelt thanks to Ritu Nakra, Chetana Misra, Vernita Verma, Alpa Bhawani, Dr.Mohnish, Dr.Shomeshwar, Rajiv Thakkar (Parent), Dr.Ruchika Mittal, Vandana Joshil and all those families who came forward to be a part of it. We are blessed and honoured to have your continued support.

Best Wishes

Team

of

Hear Me Speak

 

 

 

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Tips to involve siblings in teaching of your hearing impaired child to create a healthy and happy environment…..

 

1          Talk about the hearing loss, its implications, amplification devices, care for the devices with your children. There is nothing to hide. You should handle your child’s device with a pride and not with guilt. This reflects on your child and gives him strength to face any situation in public. Let your children understand the handling of device. You need to trust them and be patient with them.

2          It is important to promote communication between the siblings. We often feel that our hearing impaired child will not be able to make our hearing child understand his / her needs and hence we come in-between them as translators. Give them a chance and encourage their communication. They always find their own ways to do so which may even lead to special surprises for you.

3          We need to acknowledge and praise positive and collaborative behaviors. Whenever they are playing together build a positive environment around them where each one gets his own space and praise. Siblings have a fun relationship. Kids learn more while playing, as at that time they are not being taught. Their willingness to learn is enhanced.

4          We need to try to understand the feelings behind a certain act. When siblings complaint, don’t jump into conclusions. It is important to explore the reason behind that complaint. Usually our hearing impaired children get advantage in these situations. But we need to do a fair justice.

5          It is extremely important to schedule time alone with your hearing child. We often get so involved in the care of our hearing impaired child that we forget the needs of our hearing child.  Sometimes you can go alone with your hearing child to make him / her feel special too.

6          Modeling is an important tool for teaching, not just for hearing impaired children but for all kids. This tool can be used most effectively when we involve siblings in our lesson plans.

7          The world doesn’t operate as planned but we adults have a tendency to plan and stick to our plans. Unplanned surprise angles give an added edge and provide a more realistic learning than any planned lesson. Siblings can provide that variety and break the monotony of learning.

8          Speed is as important as the lesson itself. Siblings build a healthy sense of competition which raises the learning curve exponentially. Create fairly competitive games around your lesson plans and you’ll be amazed at the speed at which your child picks up.

                        To conclude, I would like to assert not to consider siblings as a hindrance to their learning but a much welcome support provided by God himself. Those who don’t have siblings need not lose heart. The same can be simulated by inviting their friends over and involving them in your lesson plans.

Ritu Nakra

LSLS Cert.AVT

Acknowledgement

Nirmit Goel mother of Prisha Goel